Welcome 👋🏽

Hi, my name is Jemia, also known as The Private Influencer.

I am a lover of all social media, but I value my time, energy, and, most importantly, privacy.

In 2019, I created @BlackWifeLife on Instagram; 5 months later, I reached 50,000 followers. And before my community was two-years-old, it reached over 100,000.

Years ago, I wanted to be an influencer with a massive following. I realized it didn't bring out my authentic or creative side. It felt forced.

I wanted to create a lane for people similar to me, who wanted to have influence, but not with the current demands of a "typical influencer."

I've spent a little too much money on programs to help me figure out my expertise. Every program was the same, requiring me to physically [virtually] show up, listen or watch most of the teachings.

Nothing catered to my style of learning. So I created my own way; now I am sharing it.

Why Subscribe?

I built something from zero using my talents. And I want to show you how you can do the same.

To gain influence or build a community, you don't have to be in front of the camera 247 or rush to complete the latest social media challenge or TikTok Dance.

I've spent countless hours perfecting my craft, learning how to build growth without following a social media influencer's traditional path. Let’s say I am obsessed with learning, and I save everything.

Your influence comes from living in your passion and strengths every day.

Subscribing means you:

  • are struggling to grow on social media, specifically Instagram

  • have a great idea for a business (or Insta page), but have no idea how to start

  • are entering the saturated market of influencing

  • want to gain influence without burnout

  • are tired of searching the internet for the best tips, tricks, and best practices

  • need a little help with refining your ideas

  • are great at what you do already, but you know you can always be better!

If any of the above sounds like you, you are in the right place.

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It’s not all business; here’s a little more about me.


I started with an idea, a passion. From there I discovered how to build a community online which led to a business launch. If you have a hobby or creative project to share with the world, let me teach you how to build an audience to market too.